About Me

I’m a 43 year old gay man living in New York City. I’m a lighting designer by day and a waiter by night. Or maybe it’s a waiter by day and a lighting designer by night. I guess it depends on what day you ask me. I started this blog to document my move to NYC and it’s two years later and I’m still in NYC and I’m still blogging so I guess that means things are going well. The blog is a mixture of my daily excursions, rants on waiting, dealing with incompetence, designing, boys, drinking, travels, drag kings, and sex. So step inside I’m sure I’ll do something to offend you.

6 Responses to “About Me”

  1. debbie Says:

    Only because you had no responses, I had to leave one. I happened upon this story by accident, looking for the dental insurance plan of the iatse national, and here I am reading your story. I like the freedom you express, from what I was reading, and the fact that someone else uses the phrase “sucky ass”. You seem to be a very musical person, and can dance your way through just about anything, in the stronger sense of the word, “dance”. Oh well Oh. Beauty from the eyes of a stranger.
    me

  2. Donna Says:

    I too happened on your blog by accident, I had put in the search for Iowa and somewhere in the mix was your blog! I was very curious as to how you would find Iowa. I enjoy your view of the world and will continue reading even if you have left Iowa.

    Donna a good hearted old lady(ghol)

  3. Raoul Butler Says:

    In the sat and mcat back in university days, I aced all those silly queens. Turned forty-one and still open in my “bama” hometown. NYC welcomed me with open-arms and Jeremy Piven walked up to me- thought (do not say a word… just ask him what time is it)

  4. sweetiegirlz Says:

    Any job with a public service will ALWAYS make for great blogging. I was a night shift cashier in a pharmacy/liquor store, and believe me the Truth will always be stranger than any fiction.

  5. James Malone Says:

    hey there….I just moved back to OKC from Chicago. When you get here, if you’d like to do dinner, shoot me an email. I love your blog and your writing style. :-)

    Have a good one!
    James

  6. Daniel Says:

    Hey Maddog, I’ve got the money shots of Jeffry West. i can send them to you as an attachment if you like. Let me know.
    Daniel

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