About Me
I’m a 43 year old gay man living in New York City. I’m a lighting designer by day and a waiter by night. Or maybe it’s a waiter by day and a lighting designer by night. I guess it depends on what day you ask me. I started this blog to document my move to NYC and it’s two years later and I’m still in NYC and I’m still blogging so I guess that means things are going well. The blog is a mixture of my daily excursions, rants on waiting, dealing with incompetence, designing, boys, drinking, travels, drag kings, and sex. So step inside I’m sure I’ll do something to offend you.


June 20, 2007 at 12:37 pm
Only because you had no responses, I had to leave one. I happened upon this story by accident, looking for the dental insurance plan of the iatse national, and here I am reading your story. I like the freedom you express, from what I was reading, and the fact that someone else uses the phrase “sucky ass”. You seem to be a very musical person, and can dance your way through just about anything, in the stronger sense of the word, “dance”. Oh well Oh. Beauty from the eyes of a stranger.
me
July 3, 2007 at 9:29 pm
I too happened on your blog by accident, I had put in the search for Iowa and somewhere in the mix was your blog! I was very curious as to how you would find Iowa. I enjoy your view of the world and will continue reading even if you have left Iowa.
Donna a good hearted old lady(ghol)
July 6, 2007 at 12:03 pm
In the sat and mcat back in university days, I aced all those silly queens. Turned forty-one and still open in my “bama” hometown. NYC welcomed me with open-arms and Jeremy Piven walked up to me- thought (do not say a word… just ask him what time is it)
January 24, 2008 at 3:21 am
Any job with a public service will ALWAYS make for great blogging. I was a night shift cashier in a pharmacy/liquor store, and believe me the Truth will always be stranger than any fiction.
May 6, 2008 at 6:02 am
hey there….I just moved back to OKC from Chicago. When you get here, if you’d like to do dinner, shoot me an email. I love your blog and your writing style.
Have a good one!
James
May 17, 2008 at 7:46 pm
Hey Maddog, I’ve got the money shots of Jeffry West. i can send them to you as an attachment if you like. Let me know.
Daniel