A Matching Pair.

July 9, 2009 by Maddog

My head hurts.

I’m tired.

I’m annoyed.

I’m worried.

I’m…

Going to make it short tonight.

Rest of the Maine trip went great.  We grilled out on Friday night.  Saturday was more shopping for the apartment.  I bought two pots for my plants, picked up more paint chips, looked at more cabinets, walked around the Old Port of Portland stopped by Blackstone’s, one of the local gay bars to play pool and drink beer.  Walked home.  Showered.  Got dressed and…

The lesbians had a little 4th of July party.  There were about 15 or so people invited along with the four of us.  At some point along the way Adam decided we should dress for the party.  And what did we wear?  Matching red, white and blue shirts.  We stopped in a J.C. Penny clearance store on the way home to Kentucky and I picked up a couple of shirts.  One particular shirt we both liked so each of us bought one.  I made it clear we’d never wear them at the same time.  Clearly Adam did NOT listen.  He decided we were going to wear our shirts as soon as he heard about the party.

And wear them we did.

And we were the hit of the party.  We got lots of double takes.  Lots of people laughed at us out right.  And everyone thought it was the coolest thing ever.  Even though I hate admitting it to him, I think he was right in deciding we should do this.  Hmmm.  Just don’t tell him I said so.

Sunday we drove home.  It was a much faster trip and we even got to New Haven in time to check out Ikea.  Of course the only thing we liked in their cabinets was the most expensive and if we are going to spend that much we should buy real cabinets from Lowe’s or Home Depot.  We got home around 9:00 ordered dinner and went to bed early.

It was a very nice weekend.

I’ll post pictures of the shirts as soon as I can get the lesbians to send me one.

This was a real nice clambake…

July 7, 2009 by Maddog

It was late when we got to Maine.  By the time we got to bed we were exhausted.  We slept in.  It was around 10:00 or so when we got out of bed.  Shared what was left of a pot of coffee and got ready to start our day.

First stop.  The Two Lights Lobster Shack.  Adam wanted to eat lobster rolls from a small place on the ocean.  He wanted to do this the last time we were there but it was out of season.  Michelle knew just the spot.  And we were off.  It’s in a beautiful location overlooking the ocean.  We got in the very long line and began discussing our food options.  We wanted everything.  Onion rings.  Fish.  Lobster.  French Fries.  Cole slaw.  Whoopee Pies.  In the end we said fuck it and ordered one of everything.  I think we spent a hundred dollars.  Okay maybe I’m exaggerating but we spent a lot.  After what seemed like four hours they called our number and we dug in.  It really wasn’t that long it was just that we were hungry.  It was also the first time in six months it wasn’t raining in Portland so EVERYONE and the brother was out.  The food was great.  Of course we didn’t finish it all but we came damn close.

On the way to the lobster shack we passed a strawberry farm that let you pick your own strawberries.  Adam really wanted to stop and play and since you can’t pick your own strawberries in NYC we all thought it would be fun.  The plants were overrun with ripe strawberries.  It took longer to walk to our area of the field than it did to pick three containers full of strawberries.  They of course cost a lot but how can you put a price on fun and strawberries all at the same time.

Next we were off to run errands.  I have two plants that need to be repotted and I wanted to get some fun, nice, pretty, cheap pots for them to go in.  We looked in about ten places.  I found two I liked but I was holding out for better so I decided to wait till Saturday to get them.

We also stopped at Home Depot.  Adam and I are moving in together, probably in October and we wanted to pick up some paint chips and we are looking for a cabinet to go in our kitchen.  The kitchen is quite small and he’s expanded out into the foyer.  The counter he has now is nice, but with the addition of my stuff we are going to need to do some expanding.  So we’ve started the process of finding some new cabinets.  They are quite expensive.  We don’t want anything fancy because we aren’t installing them permanently and we don’t own the apartment.  That being said, the cheapest thing HD had was way more than we wanted to spend.  And we didn’t really like any of them.  

We decided to call it a day and head back home.

The last stop was the grocery store.  Since the weather was nice we thought it would be nice to grill out.  Michelle and Lisa were having vegetables and Adam and I picked up steaks.  Paired with the potato salad Lisa made, the fresh strawberries, homemade margaritas and the company…it was an awesome evening.

Tune in tomorrow for the rest of the adventure.

Oh, and did I mention that Adam and I are moving in together?

A Weekend in the Country.

July 7, 2009 by Maddog

Been missing in action for the past few days.  Adam and I went to Maine over the weekend to visit the lesbians.  It’s always nice to go up north.  I’m always treated as royalty.  We are pampered and taken care of.  They have completely brought Adam into the fold and made him one of the gang as well.

We drove up on Thursday night.  That was an adventure in and of itself.  I reserved the car over a month ago.  I always rent from a Hertz rental in Fort Lee, New Jersey.  It’s cheaper than anywhere else in the city, it takes about 10 minutes to get there from my house and more importantly they are cheaper than anywhere else in the city. 

I originally reserved the car for 4:00 but I called early in the day to see if I could pick it up early.  I was told no.  I called back a few hours later and was told the same thing.  By now it’s clear I’m not going to get the car early, so I waited for Adam to come home from work early and we trekked out together.  We got there about 4:25 and we were told that our name was being added to the list and that we were second but it would be about an hour before we could get our car.  I was not totally surprised but I WAS a little annoyed.  We told them we were going across the street to Wendy’s and that we’d be back in about 30 minutes.  When we returned the office was full of people waiting and there were still no cars to give to anyone.  After about 10 minutes the people in front of us got their car.  About 30 minutes later we got our car.  Everyone who arrived after we returned from Wendy’s was told, “I’m sorry you had a reservation.  We are over booked.  You are NOT getting a car.”  I would have been livid.  

We DID finally get our car.  It was the size of Detroit.  

(I just had the crap scared out of me.  The window shade in Adam’s room just sprung loose and crashed it’s way up.  I thought I’d been shot).

It was a Grand Marquee.  

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It looked like the car that your grandmother would drive to get her hair done on Friday, so she could go to church on Sunday.  

I was afraid to wait for a smaller car because I wasn’t sure I’d get a car at all.  To make matters worse the car did NOT have an Ipod jack (grandmother’s don’t have Ipods?) which meant that we couldn’t listen to the music we’d brought along.  And who travels with CD’s anymore.

As I said we were lucky to have a car.

And we were off.

We arrived eight hours later.  It’s supposed to be a five hour drive.  We hit traffic just before we got to New Haven and we were in traffic till just before we got to New Hampshire.  It sucked.  If it weren’t for the fact that I like spending time with my boyfriend I would have been completely annoyed.  The only real annoying thing was the radio.  Do DJ’s have to talk so much?  Can’t they play music?  And do we have to have a new station every two minutes.  We’ve only driven three miles why are we already out of range?

We got there around 1:00 a.m.  We were asleep by 1:30 a.m.

We slept till around 10:00 the next morning.  

To Be Continued…

A Wednesday Night Meme…

July 1, 2009 by Maddog

I’m at a loss today.  Drawing a blank.  I have about 20 drafts of things I’ve started and haven’t finished.  I also have some meme’s that I’ve saved along the way.  I haven’t done one in a long time so here you go. 

 

1. What did you want to be when you ‘grew up?’

A teacher, an architect, a dentist, an actor.

2. What are you now?

To make money I wait tables.  I would love to work full time as a lighting designer.

3. What fictional character did you identify with as a child?

I wanted to be Nancy Drew.  And I read all the Oz books as a child.  I liked the idea of escaping to a different world.

4. How about now?

I’m not sure that I do.

5. What is your ‘Gay Pride’ Song?

It’s Raining Men holds the most importance for me, for a number of different reasons.

6. What is your drag song (we ALL have one)?

I Will Always Love You.  Either Whitney or Dolly.

7. Earliest memory?

Going to bed with my mom and having to have all of my stuffed animals arranged in the bed to suit me.  My talking Bugs Bunny was up top with me.  I would have been about two.

8. Memory you’d like to forget?

Being put on the spot in San Diego and asked to introduce Adam.  I went blank on his name and introduced him as David.  I was devastated.  It didn’t bother him nearly as much as it did me.

9. If you ran for a seat in political office, what would be your platform(s)?

Gay marriage would be up front and center.  Especially since I now have a boyfriend that won’t marry me until we can do so legally.  Healthcare would be up top as well.

10. Winehouse. Want her to succeed or are you over her?

All I know is she’s a mess.  I wouldn’t recognize her if she was on TV right now.

[For the next three questions, I am assuming that "love" means "love" (agape) and not "crush" or "lust" (eros or even philia), and that the questions are asked independent of (awareness of) sexual orientation.]

11. The first person you thought you loved?

Kenny.  It lasted about two minutes.  He broke up with me most gently and I was devastated.  Later I found out he was more of a mess than I ever knew.

12. The first person you actually loved?

Sam.  I just didn’t do a very good job of showing it.

13. The person you love now?

Adam.  He’s the best.  I have no doubts about our relationship and everyday I look forward to many more with him.

14. If you could be, do, have, own, or possess anything you wanted, what would it be?

To have not gone to my undergrad college.  I’m 99% sure that I’d be in a very different place right now if I’d gone to a big state school.  I’d have come out sooner, grown up sooner and found my passion sooner.  Then again I might not know a LOT of the people I know now so who knows if I’d really want that.

15. Even if you are in love with someone right now, who are you/could be crushing on right now?

Ryan Reynolds.  He’s HOT! 

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And Ur-spo’s bonus add-on question:  This is from a very long time ago.

Bonus. Have you kissed a skunk?

Hmmm.  Way too many.  WAY TOOOO MANY.

Have a great weekend.

A question for my readers????

June 30, 2009 by Maddog

I know, I know.  I did the math wrong on Stonewall.  I don’t know what I was thinking.  I knew it was 40 years, but on two different occasions wrote that it was 30 years.  Hmmm.  Maybe I’m getting old.

Speaking of gay pride.

The word “FAGGOT.”

Over the past couple of weeks I’ve been in a snit over the use of the word.  I don’t like it.  I don’t like it when gay people use it.  I especially don’t like it when straight people use is.  Unfortunately the word gets tossed around a lot at work.  Tonight I counted four different occurrences including being called a fag by a fellow waiter who thought she was being cute.  There’s a hispanic worker who calls me a “maricon” every time he get annoyed with me.  I hear things like “don’t be a fag.”

For the past couple of weeks I’ve really been calling people on it.  Tonight when John used it I explained, once again, that the word was offensive.   There is no other way around it.  If I were black there isn’t a single person in the restaurant that would say to me “don’t be a nigger.”  It wouldn’t happen.  What I don’t understand is why people assume it’s okay to call me a fag. 

I don’t like it.

So my question to you guys is:  What do I do to make them stop?  Do I go to management and have them do something?  Do I just realize that if I had a sense of humor it wouldn’t be an issue?  Do I just take back the night and start using the word as well?  I’m kind of in a quandary.  Clearly it’s bothering me or I wouldn’t be writing about it here.  I’m tempted to go to management and have them say something but I’m about 90% sure everyone will know who’s said something.  

Before you say it’s inappropriate, I agree.  But in a wait station in a restaurant there is a lot said and done that is not appropriate.  There are sex jokes, innuendoes, lots and lots of inappropriate conversations.  I do have to admit that for the last couple of months I’ve gone out of my way not to engage in these activities.  

What would you do in this situation?

Gay Pride.

June 27, 2009 by Maddog

Tomorrow marks the 40th anniversary of The Stonewall Riots in New York City.  It is amazing to think of how much has changed since that day.  Adam and I can walk down the street hand in hand, even in Washington Heights without worrying of being berated for it.  I can go to work and be as out as I want to be and no one cares.  I work with two transgender women (I think it’s fucked that WordPress doesn’t recognize transgender as a word.  Of course it doesn’t recognize WordPress as a word either) and their transformations celebrated.  I have been out of the closet since 1987 and for the most part have not really worried about it since.  I can get married in a growing number of states, and I’m sure in 1969 no one would have thought that possible.  And all of this is a direct result of a few pissed off gay men and women who had been pushed too far.

I think too often as we get older we forget about the people who’ve come before us that have paved our way.  I work with 12 year olds at work who have been out of the closet since they were old enough to know they liked boys.  Gay rights have always been a part of their lives.  It’s important for all of us to remember where we’ve come from, and who brought us there.  It’s important to celebrate their lives and the  consequences they faced in standing up to the establishment.

So tomorrow, go out and celebrate the pissed off men and women who fought with their fists for us.  Have a drink and say a thank you that we are all able to actually march in parades tomorrow as proud and out gay men and women.

The following is the news story that ran in the Daily News following the raids.  It’s filled with mockery.  

HOMO NEST RAIDED – QUEEN BEES ARE STINGING MAD
 
-by Jerry Lisker, New York Daily News, July 6th 1969

She sat there with her legs crossed, the lashes of her mascara-coated eyes beating like the wings of a hummingbird. She was angry. She was so upset she hadn’t bothered to shave. A day old stubble was beginning to push through the pancake makeup. She was a he. A queen of Christopher Street.

Last weekend the queens had turned commandos and stood bra strap to bra strap against an invasion of the helmeted Tactical Patrol Force. The elite police squad had shut down one of their private gay clubs, the Stonewall Inn at 57 Christopher St., in the heart of a three-block homosexual community in Greenwich Village. Queen Power reared its bleached blonde head in revolt. New York City experienced its first homosexual riot. “We may have lost the battle, sweets, but the war is far from over,” lisped an unofficial lady-in-waiting from the court of the Queens.

“We’ve had all we can take from the Gestapo,” the spokesman, or spokeswoman, continued. “We’re putting our foot down once and for all.” The foot wore a spiked heel. According to reports, the Stonewall Inn, a two-story structure with a sand painted brick and opaque glass facade, was a mecca for the homosexual element in the village who wanted nothing but a private little place where they could congregate, drink, dance and do whatever little girls do when they get together.

The thick glass shut out the outside world of the street. Inside, the Stonewall bathed in wild, bright psychedelic lights, while the patrons writhed to the sounds of a juke box on a square dance floor surrounded by booths and tables. The bar did a good business and the waiters, or waitresses, were always kept busy, as they snaked their way around the dancing customers to the booths and tables. For nearly two years, peace and tranquility reigned supreme for the Alice in Wonderland clientele.

The Raid Last Friday

Last Friday the privacy of the Stonewall was invaded by police from the First Division. It was a raid. They had a warrant. After two years, police said they had been informed that liquor was being served on the premises. Since the Stonewall was without a license, the place was being closed. It was the law.

All hell broke loose when the police entered the Stonewall. The girls instinctively reached for each other. Others stood frozen, locked in an embrace of fear.

Only a handful of police were on hand for the initial landing in the homosexual beachhead. They ushered the patrons out onto Christopher Street, just off Sheridan Square. A crowd had formed in front of the Stonewall and the customers were greeted with cheers of encouragement from the gallery.

The whole proceeding took on the aura of a homosexual Academy Awards Night. The Queens pranced out to the street blowing kisses and waving to the crowd. A beauty of a specimen named Stella wailed uncontrollably while being led to the sidewalk in front of the Stonewall by a cop. She later confessed that she didn’t protest the manhandling by the officer, it was just that her hair was in curlers and she was afraid her new beau might be in the crowd and spot her. She didn’t want him to see her this way, she wept.

Queen Power

The crowd began to get out of hand, eye witnesses said. Then, without warning, Queen Power exploded with all the fury of a gay atomic bomb. Queens, princesses and ladies-in-waiting began hurling anything they could get their polished, manicured fingernails on. Bobby pins, compacts, curlers, lipstick tubes and other femme fatale missiles were flying in the direction of the cops. The war was on. The lilies of the valley had become carnivorous jungle plants.

Urged on by cries of “C’mon girls, lets go get’em,” the defenders of Stonewall launched an attack. The cops called for assistance. To the rescue came the Tactical Patrol Force.

Flushed with the excitement of battle, a fellow called Gloria pranced around like Wonder Woman, while several Florence Nightingales administered first aid to the fallen warriors. There were some assorted scratches and bruises, but nothing serious was suffered by the honeys turned Madwoman of Chaillot.

Official reports listed four injured policemen with 13 arrests. The War of the Roses lasted about 2 hours from about midnight to 2 a.m. There was a return bout Wednesday night.

Two veterans recently recalled the battle and issued a warning to the cops. “If they close up all the gay joints in this area, there is going to be all out war.”

Bruce and Nan

Both said they were refugees from Indiana and had come to New York where they could live together happily ever after. They were in their early 20’s. They preferred to be called by their married names, Bruce and Nan.

“I don’t like your paper,” Nan lisped matter-of-factly. “It’s anti-fag and pro-cop.”

“I’ll bet you didn’t see what they did to the Stonewall. Did the pigs tell you that they smashed everything in sight? Did you ask them why they stole money out of the cash register and then smashed it with a sledge hammer? Did you ask them why it took them two years to discover that the Stonewall didn’t have a liquor license.”

Bruce nodded in agreement and reached over for Nan’s trembling hands.

“Calm down, doll,” he said. “Your face is getting all flushed.”

Nan wiped her face with a tissue.

“This would have to happen right before the wedding. The reception was going to be held at the Stonewall, too,” Nan said, tossing her ashen-tinted hair over her shoulder.

“What wedding?,” the bystander asked.

Nan frowned with a how-could-anybody-be-so-stupid look. “Eric and Jack’s wedding, of course. They’re finally tying the knot. I thought they’d never get together.”

Meet Shirley

“We’ll have to find another place, that’s all there is to it,” Bruce sighed. “But every time we start a place, the cops break it up sooner or later.”

“They let us operate just as long as the payoff is regular,” Nan said bitterly. “I believe they closed up the Stonewall because there was some trouble with the payoff to the cops. I think that’s the real reason. It’s a shame. It was such a lovely place. We never bothered anybody. Why couldn’t they leave us alone?”

Shirley Evans, a neighbor with two children, agrees that the Stonewall was not a rowdy place and the persons who frequented the club were never troublesome. She lives at 45 Christopher St.

“Up until the night of the police raid there was never any trouble there,” she said. “The homosexuals minded their own business and never bothered a soul. There were never any fights or hollering, or anything like that. They just wanted to be left alone. I don’t know what they did inside, but that’s their business. I was never in there myself. It was just awful when the police came. It was like a swarm of hornets attacking a bunch of butterflies.”

A reporter visited the now closed Stonewall and it indeed looked like a cyclone had struck the premises.

Police said there were over 200 people in the Stonewall when they entered with a warrant. The crowd outside was estimated at 500 to 1,000. According to police, the Stonewall had been under observation for some time. Being a private club, plain clothesmen were refused entrance to the inside when they periodically tried to check the place. “They had the tightest security in the Village,” a First Division officer said, “We could never get near the place without a warrant.”

Police Talk

The men of the First Division were unable to find any humor in the situation, despite the comical overtones of the raid.

“They were throwing more than lace hankies,” one inspector said. “I was almost decapitated by a slab of thick glass. It was thrown like a discus and just missed my throat by inches. The beer can didn’t miss, though, “it hit me right above the temple.”

Police also believe the club was operated by Mafia connected owners. The police did confiscate the Stonewall’s cash register as proceeds from an illegal operation. The receipts were counted and are on file at the division headquarters. The warrant was served and the establishment closed on the grounds it was an illegal membership club with no license, and no license to serve liquor.

The police are sure of one thing. They haven’t heard the last from the Girls of Christopher Street.

Tipping Tip 2,584

June 27, 2009 by Maddog

I’ve been meaning to discuss this for a while now.

Many years ago.  Back when the best beer in the place was Pabst Blue Ribbon and Stoli was top shelf vodka someone came up with the idea that when you purchased a drink a dollar per drink tip was appropriate.  You get two vodka cranberries you leave two dollars on the bar.  And for decades and decades everyone followed this rule.

Unfortunately today, many people still follow this rule.  I don’t know how to break it to you but when you are buying 12 dollar drinks, two dollars is not enough.  At least three or four times a night I wait on people that tip me on the dollar per drink system.  So their check is 42 dollars and they had four drinks so they leave four dollars.  Which isn’t even ten percent.  If I tip out what I’m supposed to tip out I make about 1.75 on the table.

Today the equation should really be:  take a look at  the check.  Tip accordingly.  If you are in a bar where the beers are two for one and they cost 4.50 each.  Then leave two dollars.  If you are in a bar where a martini cost 12.50 and you have four.  Then 10 dollars is an appropriate tip.  Besides if you can afford four $12.50 martinis, it’s my guess that you can afford the tip.

This tip was brought to you by your friendly waiter, Maddog.

Michael Jackson

June 26, 2009 by Maddog

Say what you want about Michael Jackson, the effect his talent will continue to have on the music world will be felt for a long time to come.  I know he was strange but he was immensely talented and a true star.  

It was interesting being at work with so many other people around as the news spread of his heart attack and then death.  We don’t usually show news on TV at work, but the manager changed the TV to CNN.  We had no sound but the headlines were enough.  What was really strange to me was how people were reacting.  One woman said, “Well what can you do?  We all gotta go sometime.”  There was no compassion at all.  Others were deeply moved.  Their faces focused on the TV barely able to distract themselves to order another beer.  I think that was most strange to me was the inability to take it all in myself.  I remember other bad news days and I remember where I was.  I remember being tuned to the TV even before cable to watch all the updates and to try and find out what happened.  Tonight I was told he died.  And then I went up to a table and asked them if they were ready to order their dinners.  I hate that I will always remember this day as a day I was working.

I don’t even know what else to say.  I do know that his death today was a tragedy.  His funeral in a few days will be a circus.

And it’s one, two, three strikes your out!

June 24, 2009 by Maddog

There seems to be no fallout from the conversation.  Of course I didn’t get to talk to my mom today so I’ll get her side of the story tomorrow.

Adam and I and five of his c0-workers and their spouses, families etc. went to a Mets game tonight.  It’s the first baseball game I’ve been to in about five years.  I actually like baseball.  I grew up in the 70’s watching the Cincinnati Reds.  I was a huge Pete Rose fan, as well as Johnny Bench and Joe Morgan fan.  I would love it when my mother came home and told us we were going to a game.  I collected baseball cards and little hats that sundaes came in at Dairy Queen.  For about a second you might have thought I was straight.  But for no more than a second.

The Mets have a new stadium.  It’s beautiful.  There are a million places to eat and drink and a place to buy a souvenir on every corner.  The prices are as high as ever, but at least everything is new.  The one thing missing in the new stadium is piss troughs.

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Riverfront Stadium’s public restroom was pretty much one big piss trough.

To a gay 12 year old boy this was amazing.  I had to go pee at least once during every inning.  And the ones in Riverfront Stadium were a circle so you actually faced other men who were pissing.  It brings back fond memories.  Alas piss troughs are pretty much a thing of the past.  With our sexual revolution and freedom came uptight men who were suddenly afraid to piss in front of another man.  I guess the 12 year olds of today will have to find some other way to look at men’s penises. 

I’m now going to sleep and dream of times gone by.

My life as I know it…is ending!

June 24, 2009 by Maddog

When I greeted my third table of the evening, I knew what my post for tonight was going to be.  Before I even put their order into the computer I was writing it in my head.  At the end of the night it was clearly what I needed to say.  On the train home I was thinking of more stupid things that this fucked up redneck table did while they were in the restaurant tonight.

So I get home.  I kiss my boyfriend and let him know that I’m home.  I turn on my computer.

I open up the mail program on my Mac and I see about 20 or so emails.  Most are junk or notifications from Facebook.  And an email from Adam.  He emails me before he goes to bed.  I email him when I get home.  It’s a nice way to share our day with each other since he’ll be asleep when I get home and I’ll be asleep when he leaves for work.  I save his email till last.  It’s like saving the best part till the end.

This is part of the email he sent me tonight:

hello.

you’ll be happy to know that im typing this on your computer for a change.

it took me a minute to find the ‘on’ button, though.

i got my cake baked, watered plants, potted the violet, didn’t play with harper as i should have (his cat), cleaned the kitchen, ate 2 gilled cheese, emailed my aunt, texted my dad, ironed a shirt, talked with the new roommate, mailed my rent check…what else did i do tonight?

oh yeah…i talked with mamma cat for 30 minutes!

WHAT THE FUCK???????????????

WHAT THE FUCK?

WHAT THE FUCK?

WHAT THE FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

My mother’s name is Catherine.  Everyone calls her Cat.  Adam has joked that he’ll call her mamma cat when he gets to know her better.

Which he clearly worked on tonight.

My boyfriend.

My mother.

On the phone for 30 minutes tonight while I was at work.

I can feel the walls closing in around me.  My life as I know it is ending.  Clearly the Kentucky trip went well.  I just didn’t know that it went that well.

OH MY FUCKING GOD!!!

When I responded to his email, I didn’t even know what to say.  My jaw is still on the ground and I read his email almost an hour ago.

WOW.

Don’t get me wrong.  I don’t mind.  I think it’s very sweet.  And I love that they both felt comfortable enough with each other to talk.   But for thirty minutes?

WOW.

I suppose I can give the back story here.

My mother has really bad arthritis.  And really bad back pain.  Through many experiments she has discovered that Active On back medicine helps tremendously with the pain.  Seems that all the products this company makes are not the same, and only the back medicine works for her.  When I was home, she had just run out and although we looked in every drug store we passed no one seemed to have any.

Fast forward to last week.  Adam and I were out and he found some in a Duane Reade pharmacy here.  I bought three packages for her, and then asked him if he could ship them to her from work.  He wanted to add a thank you card for letting him stay there and so he sent the box and the card.  I didn’t know this at the time, but seems he asked her how to make her famous chicken salad on the card because we talked about it when I was home.  He gave her his email address and asked her to send it to him.  She couldn’t get the email to go through and so she called.

And they talked for thirty minutes.

Oh.  My.  God.

They talked about the weather.  My family.  Recipes.  Whether he’s coming home with me when I go to Kentucky in September.  That he was welcome in her house anytime.

I guess this visit to Kentucky really did go well.

I do think however, that my head will explode if they begin texting each other.